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Kayla - she/her - 28 y/o - 5'-3" - Sunshine StateNote that all the following lists are in no particular order. I don't automatically follow back and I don't entertain negativity. I'm always open to a friendly chat. :)
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favorite anime
Studio Ghibli Movies
Fruits Basket
Fullmetal Alchemist: Brotherhood
One Piece
Assassination Classroom
Spy x Family
Heaven Official's Blessing
Hunter x Hunter
ChihayaFuru
Horimiya
Darling in the FRANXX
Demon Slayer
That Time I Got Reincarnated As A Slime
Haikyu
Carole and Tuesday
The Pet Girl of Sakurasou
Magi
My Next Life as a Villainess: All Routes Lead to Doom!
Welcome to the NHK
Kakuriyo: Bed and Breakfast for Spirits
Angel Beats
Beyond the BoundaryCheck out my Anime List
favorite games
Hogwarts Legacy
The Sims 3
The Witcher 3
Pathfinder: Kingmaker
Potion Permit
Palia
Stardew Valley
Dying Light
Assassin's CreedAdd me on Steam
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favorite things
art
cats
music
books
ballet
singing
dancing
relaxing
chocolate
sleeping in
ice cream
daydreaming
taking pictures
christmas lights
favorite people
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1. A lot of people think it’s a surge of overwhelming emotions like cocaine at a concert where they are playing the final cut scene of kingdom hearts 1 on a projector
But I think that’s passion
Love is more like the feeling of coming home to dog poop on the floor looking at your dog cleaning it up and then watching tv with your dog2. Hm that’s a good question I feel like love isn’t the same for everyone and when you feel it you just know in my opinion. People have different languages of love for a reason3. Love huh?? Wow
I have felt it before, actually I am now
Like for me, it’s like I can feel vulnerable with u, like I don't need to have my guard up when I'm around you
Idk it’s to the point where he or she makes you feel good about yourself
Talking to her/she feels easy and comfortable talking to
Someone who u would call your best friend4. Well for me, it was a always being nervous towards that person, I always wanted to do something nice for them and support them, and even though it may not be mutual on their part, it still made me happy, I would feel some type of way when I feel like somebody better than me would talk to them and flirt, but mostly I would always ask myself what could I do better to make her happy and to get closer to her heart5. So for me. Maybe it just accepting. Accepting who you are, your kids, your friends, family, romantic partner.6. I’m very down to earth so love is just easy for me lol like I easily love things and people but there’s levels to it. I genuinely try to hold saying I love you though especially with partners until I feel I’m truly comfortable and really do fuck with them. A feeling and saying are two different ways of love to me, like I can feel like I love someone but if I really love them, they’d pull the saying “I love you” out of me. It reflects in my behavior too, the deeper the love the more respect and hospitality you get out of me that’s family than the hospitality in me that’s just being a good person yfm? And to be in love with someone? To me in love and perfect are kind of synonyms to me because perfect imo is in the eye of the beholder. If I love all there is to you, pros, cons, etc you’re perfect and I want every bit of it and enjoy every bit of it7. Oh okay that’s a good question...If I had to answer I’d say the feeling is like the one thing in your heart and or mind that you know is right. Whether its toward another person or object, activity, etc. You just know you have to have it
To an extent, I definitely feel that one can go through a phase where they question it but ultimately they’d reach the “this is it” feeling8. It’s hard to describe. It’s like a big bundle of joy hits you, you have a lot of patience with the person with hopes of it turning out how you want. You don’t really feel the desire for other people and you think of their happiness more than you do your own9. To me it’s a feeling of... euphoria. When it feels like heaven being around or talking to someone, when skin to skin contact feels almost electric and makes anything and everything feel okay no matter what’s going on. It’s also a feeling of longing, like if you are apart it feels like something is missing when you are apart10. oh o see. I’d say there are levels: level 1 would be along the lines of a deep care towards someone like wanting the best for them and their happiness and sadness both effect yours to a degree.
then level 2 would be a romantic love with the same feeling as 1 but in this case you are more willing to go far beyond your means to just see them smile... and like just seeing the person you love or hearing their voice makes you happy and is comforting. they become your safe space in a sense.11. Oh, I think I could tell when I looked at my (then) boyfriend and I would feel an overwhelming sense of warmth, comfort and safety. Like it wasn’t fireworks or sparks but every time I was near him it felt right12. I think the feeling of love is basically just the person that you’re in love with just anytime you think or see them it just makes you feel happy and just amazing and that person is just so special to you that you’d do anything to make them happy and keep them safe13. There are different kinds. Platonic love is like what you have with family and friends, but romantic love is different and it has to be mutual. Without it being mutual it devolves into a one sided infatuation. Love is an understanding and agreement between two people to their level of intimacy and vulnerability being higher with each other than anyone else.14. For me, when you're in love they're almost always on your mind. You feel joy whenever they’re around or whenever you think/hear about them, and they make you happy more often than not.
Loving someone has you considering how they would feel or what they would like when you're not even around them. Of course sometimes you can feel like you love someone and it isn’t genuine, so the validity of that feeling depends on whether or not the person you're feeling that way towards truly cherishes and respects you as a person in the same light.15. It’s a feeling of being so comfortable/intimate with someone that you can truly open your heart and mind to them. A feeling of only wanting what’s best for them. The ability to let your guard down. And being emotionally and mentally fixated on them. But that’s not to be confused with a strong infatuation with them. Whether plutonic or lustful.16. Kinda of like a want that's constantly there thinking about the person and being really interested and enjoying their time17. Something that always comes to mind is that no matter what I want them to smile whenever I’m around and help them truly love themselves and be better people also the thought of someone I like being sad makes me sad and wish I could make it go away18. Sooo the feeling of love to me ... is when I see my person and my cheeks flush making me smile. Sometimes just thinking of them makes me feel the same way. Just pure joy. I’m pretty sure my body temp rises just slightly when I think about how much I’m in love. It’s definitely a warm feeling!
I also feel very safe and able to freely be myself19. I think it's very different from person to person. I don't even know if I've experienced what my idea of it would be. I've been with women I claim to love but I don't know if I've ever felt that kind of deep connective sensation that is often attributed to romantic love. I've often mistaken infatuation or lust with love in the past. What I can say for certain is that I believe love is fluid and requires nourishment to flourish. This also means it can fade if it isn't tended to properly. It's a really nebulous concept that can get muddled with the biological drivers that influence us to seek out companionship. I think real love takes a certain form of transcendence that recognizes itself as something that is beyond primal desires and those in love feel it as such. All of this is to say that it takes effort and I think it is something that taps deep into the human psyche, so much so that I believe it to be the primary driving force of literally everything humans do. I hope this perspective was helpful20. hm. I feel like love is a very strong emotion for someone and it could be romantic or platonic. its where you love that person for truly who they are, even if you dislike some parts of who they are you still accept them.21. I've felt it a few times. Physically, what I feel is a tightening in my chest and a slight difficulty breathing. It doesn't hurt, it actually feels like ecstasy, I'd say.
Emotionally, I think it's harder to pinpoint. To me, it's when your thoughts about that person change to be more wholesome and considerate for that person. Their hopes and feelings become a priority and you genuinely want them to be happy.
They make you feel better, in some ways no other person could, I guess22. Well the feeling of love to me is If I constantly think of that person and want to talk to no one but that person and spend most of your time with them and make memories with them and that you want to spend the rest of your life with them23. that swell in the pit of your stomach that shoots up your spine and leaves a permanent smile stuck on your face
that feeling of going to bed less anxious and worried about the day or the future because you feel secure with someone you trust and care for
when another human being cares about you so deeply that they go outta of their way to make you feel happy and amazing and do little things for you like cook and clean and buy personal gifts to show affection
like I love the honeymoon phase of a relationship but the part where they stick around and show you they still care even a few years in is what makes it all worthwhile24. I feel like the feeling of love as far as physically is sort of the same feeling as anxiety. By that I mean that if I really love someone I'm 24/7 thinking about them. To the point that all of my free time that I have to sort of just imagine and think about different things, I just think about them. Love isn't anxiety but it sort of has that same feeling of something that will constantly be on your mind.
Emotionally tho
Love is more like an unconditional want for someone to be happy or prosper I feel
I feel like love consist of, love for yourself, love for others, and love that you have for a partner and each of those affect your life differently25. To me I think it's the degree in which an individual is willing to place someone before themselves despite the burden it would place on yourself26. There’s a delicate balance between love and obsession and I think love has many forms and the deeper that love for someone becomes the more willing you are to want to be around that person and see them happy
I believe to truly love something you need to be able to put it above yourself even if only a little27. My answer doesn’t come from the romantic side of it cause I honestly never felt that, but as far as my family I’m lucky to feel an extremely deep love from each of them even the babies. It’s actually a really beautiful feeling when we all together
So to me love is when you can look at that person and know they will never lie or leave you/cast you aside no matter what. Your role model figures like parents and uncles etc may let you fall on hard times to make you grow but you always know it’s not because they have forgotten you
And vice versa too like when you can look at someone and go life would not be the same without them/I would do anything for this person and you know for a fact they look at you the same, unconditionally, then that’s love28. Love is not something that develops over time, it something that you feel instantaneously. It courses through you like water over a river after a storm. Filling you and emptying you all at once. You feel it throughout your body, in your hands, in your eyes, in your head, in your stomach, in your skin, and in your heart. It’s an amazing feeling once two individuals find who they are supposed to be with. You connect on another level physically, emotionally, sexually, and spiritually. Love is many more things, if you have to think about then you’ve never felt it. This is a short version29. For me at least it felt kinda like a calm if that makes sense. Kinda like that feeling you get when your outside in the summer and it's raining really hard but like deep down you know it's just it's happening for a reason and everything is gonna be alright30. I’d say when they make you want to be the best version of yourself, that’s love. When they inspire you to make changes and genuinely want what’s best for you, that’s love. When you wake up everyday grateful for their existence and that your paths crossed, that’s love. There’s a lot of different types of love so it’s almost impossible for one explanation haha